Carving personality of youngsters.

Teaching - An effort to create future generations.
Greater responsibility lies on the shoulders of teachers and our education systems. The behavior and interaction of the teacher and management with the children directly influences the personality development of students. It is contagious reaction. If the teacher behaves with rudeness by scolding the students, by dictating and ordering the students to forcibly apply authority. The students obviously learn the same principles and will also try to implement the same attitude while behaving and reacting to their juniors at campus as well as at home. Thus this leads to ragging in campus. Thus children create an attitude for destructive and possessive behavior. Thus on the other hand, if the teacher brings the required change and transforms his students using constructive behavior with compassion and brotherhood. The same will be absorbed by the students, thus they start behaving in the similar ways. It is very important for the teacher to create realization in the thinking of students about their contribution towards a constructive good purpose to serve the humanity. By convincing the minds of students with proper explanation of ideas and views will certainly create a permanent change in thinking of those students. If the students are controlled by scolding it may give temporary treatment but not permanent transformation of thoughts. Thus convincing with proper gentle explanation can be an effective permanent solution of smoothness. Thus the children will learn to respect one another with brotherhood and compassion. Reminding and relating everyday teaching with necessary moral values is very important to heal and cure generations of masses and nations.

Women have Greater Power as well as Responsibilities.

There is no doubt women are powerful too. They too have immense intelligence. At the same time it is very important to be constructive, to achieve an humble objective of life. To treat everyone with compassion and brotherhood. To be bold enough to stand strong with the rightful ideas, views and persons. In order to serve the mankind and humanity. It is important to appreciate the good ones and to join hands with them to create a better future. To realize by meditation what is good and what is bad. Many Goddesses like Mata Durga, Mata Sita, Mata Saraswati, Mata Laxmi, etc are very good examples of women who are worshiped only because of their immense contribution to serve the humble purpose of humanity. Thus there is nothing wrong in being powerful as long as good purpose is achieved. It is noted in Constitution of Law and Order that maximum rapes of women are a result of the women's rudeness towards the other male persons. Maximum quarrels and robberies in societies are due to broken families which consists of women who may be responsible to provide moral values to her male spouses. Any miss utilization of power by women with manupulations within her family may lead to serious destructive consequences. Thus it is important for women to realize their duty and responsibilities to create a better society.

I have experienced my mothers nature since my childhood. My mother is very adamant, possessive, dominating, dictating, self centered, mentally unstable(with extreme emotions), orthodox(superstitious), manipulative, opportunist, emotional dramatist, sentimental. (Read More Here)

Man and Women are two important parts of humanity.
They are both equally independent and responsible to lead and create a satisfying happy society.

Each of us need to realize our humble objective of life, purpose of life, we need to contribute whatever we are comfertable with, to achieve satisfaction and happiness in life.

It is very important to be a GOOD and Humble Human-Being before being a,
Sister or brother, a mother or a father, a husband or a wife, a friend or a companion......

Both men and women have equal respect and responsibility.
Neither Women are superior to men, nor a Man is superior to a women.
Humans are respected only when they are HUMBLE and GENTLE.

RESPECT and Dignity is very important in every relationship.

It is improper and a bad attitude to impart EGO of Superiority.

Today's modern woman is independent and capable to lead a self sustained life. To create her own financial security. To support and nurture her entire family.

She has a capacity to lead a respectable life. She has become much calm, gentle and humble with balanced spiritualism and tolerance.

She has become matured and intellectual to create and achieve a noble purpose of life.

She has conquered and is liberated by anger, hatred and frustrations, towards peace, joy and brotherhood, to reform a serene INDIA.

Two sides of the same coin. Apart from the above fact, the true fact is that there are a few manipulative, wicked, in-matured, self-centered, possessive, women with ego of superiority to showoff.

Here is a very nice song "Ye Jo Mohabbat Hai" by "Kishore Kumar".

In this song, the male artist describes the attitude of women.
He says that the women expects her man, to die on her behalf.
(in hindi: "mar jaye, mit jaye, ho jaye badnam")
And she expects him to loose his respect, by spoiling his character.
It defines women's attitude, desire to control her man.
She expects him to be her slave, to die on her behalf.
To lose his self respect, status and reputation in the society.
By doing so she intends to attain respect and admiration of others in society.
She expects to attain her dignity by destroying her man. Which is absolutely wrong and inadvisable.
It also signifies a women's attitude of possessiveness, dominance and manipulative behavior, which is materialistic and destructive.
When a man Loves a women she tries to take advantage of his weakness. Instead of appreciating him, she tries to blackmail him.
Thus the man refuses to love women.

It is definitely appreciated if women would look at her man as one of her good friends, with equal respect and understanding.
Without expecting him to die on her behalf, or to lose his respect on her behalf.

This kind of behavior, attitude and expectations of women, towards her man may destroy his psychological balance.
It may destroy his self-respect and individuality, leading to frustrations.
Thus the man in-order to cope up with such emotional disrespect may land up with addictions of alcohol, tobacco, drugs, etc.
This may lead to his destruction.

It is thus advisable to women not to expect her man to be her slave.
In-order to maintain equal respect and dignity, to look at him as a respectable human being.
Rather than a slave, or as an object to satisfy her evil desire.
This kind of attitude in women is responsible for destroying the value of sacred LOVE between a man and a women. The man in this song is AFRAID to fall in LOVE.
Love is the strongest power on earth, which can heal, cure and motivate humans.
At the same time it can be dangerous and destructive if manipulated and misused to achieve her selfish motive.
Few women expect her man to create huge amount of wealth, so that she can enjoy the ego of superiority in the materialistic society, which is absolutely wrong.
They expect her man to fulfill all her possessive desires.

Here is a nice video I came across while surfing ArtOfLiving,

The Secret of Relationships - by Sri Sri Ravi Shankar - Coverage by News 9
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0pmmdbC__D8

While I was watching this nice video, while Guruji talks about relationships between Husband and Wife. Guruji explains do's and dont's for both men and women. While I was watching this video I started wondering why was Guruji still not married? Similarly, many Famous Indian Leaders like, Anna Hazare ji, Atal Bihari Vajpayee ji, Maulana Abul Kalam ji, Sri Sri Guruji, and many more have not married. I was just wondering what would be the reason for them to be single. It is natural for men to marry, as marriage is considered to be a respectable and sacred relationship. Also being said that it is continued from one life to another, from soul to soul. As Hindu religion considers the role models of Radhe Krishna, Ram Sita, Shiva Parvati, etc. Our youngsters do need role-models of successful married couples, so that they can learn form them, to lead a satisfying and happier life.

Not only in India, but in the entire world, and also the entire human evolution, right from Adam and Eve, Marriage is denoted as the most respectable relationship between man and women to attain salvation.
Every Indian woman is pious and worships her husband with divinity. Even Guruji explains the same concept. But after all this why would Guruji not marry? is the question pondering.

http://sam131141510beautiful.blogspot.in/2006/06/love-in-different-forms.html

Ram Katha Program in London in Spring 2002
- 28 Aug 11
http://www.jaisiyaram.com/blog/my-life/8784-ram-katha-program-in-london-in-spring-2002-28-aug-11.html

I feel sorry for the folks who are blessed with an opportunity to live in these rich and highly developed countries. I feel sorry when they do not realize their good purpose of life. When they do not realize their humble responsibility and duty to heal and cure the entire humanity. It is wrong for them to easily get carried away with destructive desires of infatuations. They are not only destroying themselves but are also trying to spoil all others surrounding them in that atmosphere, by propagating such vibrations of unwanted and unnecessary passion and sexual arousal. It is as well quite common for someone with a stronger will power to overcome this and to realize the truth of reality. We have already read in scriptures how sage swami Vishwamitra was deceived and diverted by Menaka, in order to divert his concentration while at penance. When this can happen with a great sage, then why not with an ordinary common man.

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http://www.jaisiyaram.com/blog/nature/8791-individualism-in-america-people-uniting-in-emergency-situations-like-in-hurricane-irene-29-aug-11.html

Love is the strongest power on Earth. We tend to create our personality depending upon the principles we adopt, thus we tend to visualize our ideas. We are all different individuals with different views and principles. We feel comfortable when we connect or interact with individuals with similar Philosophies, Eros and agape's. Anger, hatred and frustrations are destructive. Where as love, compassion and brotherhood are constructive. Everything is contagious, thus conversion of destructive towards constructive is necessary for humanity.

American government increases its spending in order to boost its economy

People working in government and private sectors want them to spend money, to distribute money in order to boost the economy. It is always noticed that the American government increases its spending in order to boost its economy. at the same time it is important to stand up for a fight to protect humanity and to appreciate moral values. it is important to heal and protect the entire world of humanity instead of concentrating only on USA. None of the powerful leaders from various parts of the globe have not yet given any clear statement to support the fight against corruption, which is ongoing in India. This is a shame on global community too. It is quite healthy for the president to give a clear statement that he too wants to stop the corruption, as in INDIA. It is also important for PM Manmohan Singh ji to openly support the fight against corruption. USA is respected only because of its principles to implement peace, liberty and justice, in order to protect the innocent poor helpless and weak folks. In is noticeable in USA that the higher officers always implement laws with which the common US citizen is provided with the best provisions of basic necessities of healthy life style. Dollar value is higher, thus common man can afford the best product at the cheapest price. India must also implement such policies. And USA must also support and help India in this fight against corruption. Every powerful and responsible leader across the globe must stand up and apply pressure on Indian congress to implement the reform for a better change, thus also contributing to the global peace process. towards a better hygienic life-styles. the small First step is sometimes difficult, but all BIG things start with this small first step.

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http://www.jaisiyaram.com/blog/corruption/8763-is-michelle-obama-corrupt-if-she-goes-on-holiday-25-aug-11.html